Shiva Baby (2020)

31 Aug 2023

Rating: 4/5

Danielle is a 20-something who, like most of us, has trouble juggling her family and her private life, keeping some half-truths and lives spinning as she attends a shiva. Those lives come to a head when her sugar daddy shows up to the shiva with his wife and baby

The movie is a boiling pot of tension that induces “ha ha” laughs and “omg” laughs in equal measure. Because it’s not just Danielle’s denial, but everyone’s — not just her lies — that shake the foundations

We like to pretend that life all comes together in your 30s and everything smooths out, but we trade those anxieties with new ones. As long as people are in your life, you will have conflicts and misunderstandings with them. The lesson is not that the trouble goes away, but that it cannot stay hidden or else boom

Everyone is great in this — Rachel Sennott has slightly less oblivious Hannah Horvath energy. Molly Gordon has a permanent intensity that never lets any detail pass idly. Ted Melamed and Polly Draper are such frustrating parents — supportive, which may be why (at least in part) Danielle feels so stuck and unable to find the independence she craves

At times, the movie veers into tired misogynistic tropes — not one woman can support another without talking shit behind her back — but there is an argument for the movie having a subjective lens

Also, a few plot contrivances kink up the story thread, but they didn’t take me out of it. Having seen the original short, I can see how much expansion of the central conceit the story required, and the filmmakers did a mostly great job

What a debut! I can’t wait to see Bottoms


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